<![CDATA[retiredbrains.com - Blog]]>Thu, 18 Jul 2019 12:00:05 -0700EditMySite<![CDATA[Non-Physical Health Symptoms You Need to Pay Attention To]]>Fri, 19 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/non-physical-health-symptoms-you-need-to-pay-attention-toHealth is a big deal, but people will often ignore health warning symptoms and put off going to the doctor as long as possible. It may be because they don’t have the money for a checkup, they don’t want to deal with any health problem and don’t have to if they don’t know what’s going on, or they don’t realize that they’re experiencing symptoms of underlying health problems. Some symptoms are not always easy to recognize, especially as people begin to age and get used to aches, pains, and creaks that never used to be there before. It’s important to pay attention to your body and what it’s trying to tell you about your health through various symptoms, though.

Although many people think of symptoms of health problems as being physical, (such as pain), there are many non-physical symptoms of health problems that you need to watch out for as well. Although some symptoms may not be indicative of serious, underlying health issues, certain or recurring symptoms should be checked out right away

​Trouble Sleeping

Findings show that approximately 25 percent of Americans suffer from acute insomnia each year. The good news is, around 75 percent of those are able to recover without developing chronic insomnia. Still, if you’re having trouble sleeping even just for one night, it can drastically affect your day. If you find yourself having trouble sleeping for more than just a few nights in a row, your body may be trying to tell you something. You should discuss the issue with your doctor since it can affect you in many aspects of everyday life and could be indicative of an underlying issue.


​According to a poll by Amerisleep, nearly 52 percent of respondents confessed that they had taken a nap while at work. Everyone gets tired now and again and may be in need of a nap or two, especially as they get older; if you’re having sleeping trouble, then tiredness and fatigue during the day are no surprise. But if you find yourself feeling excessively tired, it would be a good idea to discuss it with your doctor since tiredness can be an indicator of certain health problems.

Brain Fog

Brain fog is something that you may have experienced every now and again, perhaps when you’ve had a lot on your mind or if you haven’t been getting enough sleep, but if you find yourself having a hard time remembering things, thinking clearly, etc., then you should discuss the matter with your doctor. Brain fog and depression can go hand in hand, and it can be a symptom of something other than a long day or sleepless night.

Excessive Worry/Anxiety

Most people can agree that they worry more than they need to, but just knowing that doesn’t necessarily make the worries easier to deal with or make it easier to stop worrying. While it’s natural to worry about finances, your family, and other aspects of life, excessive worrying and even anxiety—especially when they manifest consistently—could be symptoms of underlying an underlying condition. If you are worrying about things excessively or that you don’t need to worry about and are finding yourself experiencing anxiety, especially if it’s for no reason, you should talk to your doctor to look into possible causes so that you can get the help and treatment that you need.

Unexplained Mood Swings

There are a lot of different factors that can affect your mood—even food can affect how you feel. While it may be normal to experience minor mood swings during the day, if you’re having unexplained, dramatic mood swings and find yourself swinging a lot, then it is a good idea to talk with your doctor. There are some things that would definitely justify some changes in mood, but if you’re finding yourself extra irritable or sad, your body could be letting you know that there’s something going on that you may not already be aware of.

In Conclusion

Good health is important so it’s imperative that you pay attention to your body and are aware of the symptoms that it shows so that you can get the treatment that you need and avoid potential illnesses and issues becoming worse than they already may be. In some cases, the body may even show symptoms that aren’t physical at all and may let you know of issues by giving you brain fog, mood swings, or even make it difficult for you to sleep. While many symptoms are normal when experienced every now and again and do not indicate an underlying issue, if you’ve noticed them persisting or are ever concerned about a symptom, it’s important to see your doctor right away.

Are there any other non-physical health symptoms you would recommend watching out for?
<![CDATA[Things that Ruin Romance]]>Wed, 17 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/things-that-ruin-romance​The flame of love may fade at any stage of the relationship. Some kill it on their first date, others pull off three or four, and some begin self-sabotage once things get serious. For most individuals, the longer the relationship lasts the harder it is to overcome the eventual failure. However, there are commonalities that should be spotted and avoided at all costs.
If you have not found love, this article could help you realize the flaws that made your past experience unpleasant. Relationships are never smooth from start to finish. If you would like to know more about Russian brides, check out the beauties you can find here in our database of candidates. Love can find you anywhere, but internet-assisted dating is the most convenient way to find it. 

First date errors 

1. Oversharing

​Some candidates rush right to the subject of marriage after the first 15 minutes. Do not pressure the potential soulmate to discuss family life scenarios. During the first few dates, they will not want to hear about your plans for childbirth, your endless battles with anxiety or abusive family background. It should be an introductory period allowing you to learn more about one another, but the information you share must be positive and relevant. Do not turn it into a stress test to see if the person can withstand your emotional imperfections and past flaws.

2. Being opinionated

​Of course, we all have the right to form our own opinions on religion, politics and everything else. But should you always express them straight away? Unless you meet at some rally of religious gathering, try to remain neutral. Do not express any strong judgments if they can potentially spark a conflict or offend the candidate. Keep the conversation light.

3. Bringing up your ex

​Nobody wants to hear horror stories about your aggressive/abusive/unfaithful ex-partner. You have to focus on the present and the future. Those who live in the past are hardly ready to start a new romance, and it is exactly what the other person will think. Such behavior communicates your inability to get over your past failures and to emotionally disconnect from your previous lover completely. Besides, who wants to feel like a psychoanalyst on their first date?

​4. Being desperate

if your first date seems to have gone well, it is not an excuse to get obsessive. Make a few calls or leave a few messages here and there, but never let this feel like bombarding. Say something along the lines of “I was really enjoying the time spent with you yesterday, and I think you are awesome”. Frequent attempts to connect will only convey your own insecurity and neediness, which is a turnoff.
​Many things may ruin a seemingly perfect couple even after years or decades together. For love-seekers, first dates are the first essential stage in bonding. Do not let it go awry by falling victim to these common mistakes.
<![CDATA[Why More Seniors Need to Plan Their Estate Before Retirement]]>Mon, 15 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/why-more-seniors-need-to-plan-their-estate-before-retirementYou’re nearing a new milestone in your life. Retirement is something most older adults dream of. The day they can stop working so hard and simply enjoy the fruits of their labor. Spending more time with family, starting passion projects, traveling, and enjoying their days is at the forefront of their minds. While these are all great things to look forward to, living out your best years won’t be as enjoyable if you haven’t properly prepared.

By this point, it is likely that you’ve accumulated some sort of savings, invested in your retirement account, and perhaps even started reducing your debts so you can live comfortably. Yet, have you given any thought to what will occur should something happen to you? As you get older the risk for serious health problems, injuries, and even death are more likely. Though it’s not something you really want to ponder on too long, it’s best to deal with matters while you’re in good health.

Estate planning is an essential process that seniors should consider before retiring. Working with a firm like Lawyer in Blue Jeans Estate Planning can help you in the areas listed below:

Passing Down Financial Assets

Though you hope you have many years ahead of you in retirement, you simply can’t predict the future. An estate planning attorney can work with you to ensure you have the proper paperwork in place to pass down your financial assets to your surviving loved ones. Here are some ways they help you transfer assets after your passing:
  • Drafting a will - Many people die without having a will in place. This means that their assets will go through the probate process. The courts ultimately decide who gets what. A will, however, eliminates the need for probate and gives your loved ones the access they’re entitled to. 
  • Updating Beneficiaries - From your life insurance policies to your retirement and bank accounts, most financial institutions require you to designate a beneficiary who would receive the funds in the event you pass away. Most people apply for these accounts decades ago and have no idea where their money is going. An estate planning attorney can collect all account information to disclose beneficiaries and help you take the necessary steps to update as you see fit. 
  • Creating a Trust - A trust is another avenue individuals can take to pass down their assets. It allows you to transfer all of your assets into a trust and manage them while living. You appoint a trustee, who, after you’ve passed will be responsible for making sure each surviving relative gets what you asked for. It too keeps you out of probate court and can save you money on estate taxes.

Planning for Future Care

Right now, you’re in decent health and ready to experience retirement, but who is to say that will be the case in a few years? When you plan your estate prior to retirement, however, you give yourself an opportunity to make arrangements for your care when you’re unable to make decisions for yourself. 
  •  Living Wills - A living will is simply instructions on how you wish to be cared for. Should you get sent to the emergency room for an extreme condition, the will can outline whether or not you wish to be revived at all costs. Essentially, it serves as a guide for healthcare providers. An estate planning attorney can work with you to ensure you have a living will in place that best spells out your wishes in the event that you’re unable to speak for yourself (like in the event of a stroke or other disability).
  • Healthcare Proxies - If you should suffer a stroke that leaves you unable to speak for yourself, who will be there to ensure that you’re cared for as you want? Healthcare proxies are people you appoint to speak on your behalf about any and all matters relating to your medical care. Even if this person is your spouse, having it documented will make things easier going forward.
  • Power of Attorney - If you’re sick or disabled you’re also not capable of making financial decisions. If you plan your estate before retirement, you can appoint someone to take care of financial matters for you. They can have access to your financial accounts to pay medical expenses, household expenses, and more.
If you really want to retire and enjoy yourself, it is important to get the hard stuff out of the way first. Having an estate plan ensures that you have all the necessary documents in place to secure your future and the future of those you love. An estate planning attorney, as you can see from above, can be very instrumental in making sure that you’ve dotted all your eyes and crossed all your tees.
<![CDATA[Dementia: what’s the best way forward?]]>Fri, 12 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/dementia-whats-the-best-way-forward​Dementia is a horrible, cruel disease. We hear horror stories on a regular basis, through soaps on TV, magazines, and through friends and family. However, there are ways to make dementia that little bit easier on all affected by it. We share some of our top tips to help you all move forward in the best possible way.

Keep your cool

It is really easy to become frustrated and raise your voice when you are feeling that way. This response to forgetfulness or repetition will not do anyone any good. Try to remember that annoying you is never the intention. Responding to something negative in a negative way will not produce a positive outcome. Remain calm, in control, and loving.


Dementia can make the individual feel as though they are losing their identity. Doing things to allow them to have fun and meet others, potentially in the same position, is really important. Some areas have memory clinics or cafes where both patients and carers are able to meet up with others. However, it is important not to restrict outings solely to activities linked to this disease. Continue going to church each Sunday, if that is what used to happened, and take the grandkids to the park. For as long as possible, try to maintain some sort of normality. For the person with dementia, everything will have been tipped on its head. A familiar routine can stop things feeling quite so daunting.

Focus on health

For some people, the diagnosis of dementia can prompt an ‘I give up’ attitude. It is important to encourage the opposite. Focusing on positive physical and mental health is vital. Walks in the countryside or a swim at a local pool are great options. Cutting back on smoking and drinking, plus making sure they have a balanced diet are all things that will help stay healthy.

Plan for the future

​Living for the moment is great and encouraged. However, it is also imperative that you do think ahead to the time when current care is no longer suitable and sufficient. As much as we may feel that on our own, we are able to meet the needs of our loved ones, that can’t always be the case. Other members of your family, friends and professionals can be there to help. Just don’t feel as though you are failing by asking for assistance. It will help you avoid burnout and to maintain a closer, more positive relationship. Whether you choose a Senior Care Center or hire nurses to come into your home to supplement the care already being given, research your options carefully before finalizing anything.

Trigger memories

​Photographs are a great way to trigger memories. They don’t always work, but it is nice to sit down and share an album together. Moreover, music can really enhance life for everyone. Putting your friend or relative’s all-time favorite songs onto an MP3 player or even a CD could prove a real hit. Music brings joy to so many people and you could be doing just that for your loved one.
<![CDATA[How Much Financial Support Should You Give Your Adult Children]]>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/how-much-financial-support-should-you-give-your-adult-children​This is a very important and also current question. We hear of ‘The Bank Of Mum & Dad’ all the time, but is this really the reality for most families. Do you do it, should you do it and can you even afford to do it? I’m sure we all want the best for our children but how far should that go and when is it appropriate and when should they fend for themselves. You will no doubt want to leave money long term for your children and providing support will actually be more tax efficient than inheritance later on.

When Young Adults

​I think most of us would agree that when the children are going through that difficult transition between childhood and adulthood then we should be there for them. I think it’s extremely rare for a child to hit the age of 16 and be sent out to fend for themselves. So usually we would provide a roof over their head between their teens and early twenties before thinking about asking them to move on. We even hear of some households where grown up kids in their 30s and 40s still have never left home, this is where you really should consider strongly encouraging a bit of independence.

Help With College Or University

If they have chosen to attend college or university then many parents feel a duty to support them through this time. But what level of support is appropriate, if you can afford it should you pay all of their rent and living expenses, this might be a big help but then does having to earn at least some of their keep not teach them valuable life lessons? It’s probably best to strike a balance here.

​For The Deposit On A House

This is a big one, we hear of many young people struggling to get on the property ladder. It’s common now to need a 10% deposit or more in some circumstances. You can help them out with this or even provide help by way of a shared ownership mortgage, this way helping them out without actually making it a handout.

To Help Get Out Of Financial Difficulty

​Here is a tricky one and it is often the one that can cause most upset and thought for parents. If they have made big financial mistakes is it appropriate to bail them out? On one hand you don’t want them getting in a downward spiral of debts, bad credit and money issues but on the other if they get a bail out will they have learned the lesson of how to manage their money? Tread carefully here and if you do choose to help out make it very clear it is a one off and they need to alter the behavior that got them there.

For The Grand-Children

​Saving the best until last and that’s why I’ve left writing about the grand-children to the very end. If you are lucky enough to be furnished with grand-children then, of course, go on and spoil them, that’s your right and role as a grandparent.
<![CDATA[Resources for Staying Happy and Healthy in Your Golden Years]]>Mon, 01 Jul 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/resources-for-staying-happy-and-healthy-in-your-golden-years​Aging isn’t supposed to be a part of life that’s feared. In fact, to make it to your golden years used to be looked at as an honor. It signifies that you’ve lived long, experienced a lot, and have a lot of memories to show for it. Now that your children are grown and the 9 to 5 grind is behind you, it’s time to enjoy and experience life from a whole new perspective.

While some believe that becoming a senior means that you’re doomed to fall ill or develop a disease that puts them in the nursing home, the truth is lots of seniors live long, happy, and prosperous life. All it takes is sound decision-making and the right resources.

Natural Supplements

Whether you have a vitamin D deficiency or are struggling with pain management, taking too many medications and unhealthy over-the-counter solutions can have adverse side effects. This, in turn, reduces your quality of life. So, whenever possible, talk with your doctor about using an alternative but natural supplements to treat certain health issues.

They can answer questions like what is willow bark and how does it help to treat pain? Or which are the best dietary supplements to take to boost iron and calcium levels. Either way, the more all-natural alternative solutions you can use, the better it is for your overall health and wellness.

Technological Healthcare Solutions

​When it comes to senior care, there are proactive healthcare solutions on the market that have been proven to make their lives easier. Such technologies can be used on the go or installed in the house to help keep seniors happy, healthy, and safe. These systems can be instrumental in monitoring daily activities, recording vitals, and generating reports for caretakers and healthcare providers. They’re also ideal for reporting emergencies like slip and falls, heart attacks, or strokes which could essentially save lives.

Community Centers

Staying active and social is vital for seniors both physically and mentally. Visiting a local senior community center or program on a weekly basis is an effective way to stay in touch and in shape. Many of these community centers serve meals, host games, and even encourage fitness for seniors with trained instructors that visit regularly. Find out where the nearest community center is as well as potential transportation for getting around and remain active in your neighborhood.

Meal Delivery Services

Nutrition is important at any age, but as you get older your body starts to lose some of its efficiency. This means that seniors need to make sure they’re consuming well-balanced meals on a daily basis. For seniors who are homebound and unable to get around well, there are government funded meal delivery programs available. You can get fresh hot meals delivered to your house on a regular basis to ensure you’re getting the proper nutrition.

For seniors who are able-bodied and can still carry out daily functions like cooking, there are meal delivery services online you can sign up for. These services drop off pre-packed, prepped, fresh ingredients and easy-to-follow recipes so you can make your own nutritious meals at home.

Your golden years are meant to be enjoyed. You should be living the life you’ve always planned for without the added stress. It all starts by taking care of your physical and mental well-being. With the help of resources like those listed above, you can easily socialize, exercise, eat right, and ensure your safety and happiness.
<![CDATA[What You Need to Know About Travelling with a Gallbladder Condition]]>Fri, 28 Jun 2019 16:31:12 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/what-you-need-to-know-about-travelling-with-a-gallbladder-conditionMedical conditions affecting the gallbladder are very common. Worldwide, it is estimated that anywhere between one in five and one in 10 people have gallstones - a build-up of solid matter usually made up of either cholesterol or bilirubin, a by-product of red blood cells.

On their own, gallstones can be completely benign, and most people aren’t aware they even have them. However, once they become too large, they can start to cause acute pain. Even worse, if they get stuck in the bile ducts leading to the liver, they can cause cholecystitis, or inflammation of the gallbladder, which in turn can lead to persistent pain, jaundice and fever. If left untreated, cholecystitis can also lead to death, with 10,000 fatalities a year recorded in the US alone. 

Being diagnosed with gallstones and/or cholecystitis can raise many questions, including whether or not it is safe to travel with the condition. This is especially relevant to people who have to undergo surgery to have the stones removed, one of the most common ways to treat gallstones. Many patients wonder how safe it is to travel, and to fly, both before surgery and immediately following, during the recovery phase.

For general travellers, there is not too much advice out there on travelling with a gallbladder condition. For gallstones that aren’t causing any symptoms, there are no real restrictions on your movements or the activities you take part in.

Some measure of guidance can be found in the advice offered to pilots and aviation staff. The Federal Aviation Authority (FAA) places no restrictions on its members flying if gallstones are found but there are no accompanying symptoms. Where it does advise caution is if patients are suffering pain and/or have a diagnosis for cholecystitis, in which case they recommend no participation in “safety sensitive” activities. For ordinary fliers, this should be read as meaning air travel could exacerbate symptoms. The best path is to take professional advice from your physician.

Gallbladder disease and travel insurance

If you have had a diagnosis for any gallbladder condition, including symptomless gallstones, you must declare it when buying travel insurance. In general terms, insurers want to know of any pre-existing medical conditions before they offer you a policy. This is because, if you already have a condition, your insurer will consider the risk of you making a medical claim against your policy higher, and will therefore seek to charge you a higher premium.

The amount of the premium you have to pay will depend on the nature of your circumstances. You will probably be quizzed about your symptoms. If your gallstones are symptomless and have been for six to 12 months or more, you will likely see very little increase in what you have to pay for insurance. If you have a diagnosis for cholecystitis, on the other hand, or if you are awaiting or have had surgery, you could face a higher charge.

The other key factor in how much you are charged is the provider you turn to. A mainstream provider is likely to impose a high surcharge, if they choose to offer you cover at all. But a provider who specialises in cover for medical conditions, including gallbladder condition insurance, will offer you much better rates, based on a thorough evaluation of your personal circumstances.
<![CDATA[What to Do If Partners Have Different Religious Beliefs?]]>Fri, 14 Jun 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/what-to-do-if-partners-have-different-religious-beliefs​In the modern world, the situation is quite common when partners have different religious beliefs. Often, this is detrimental to the harmony of relationships. It isn’t a rare situation when it causes a break up. Until recently, such a problem arose very rarely, because the partners found each other in their environment. Suppose there is some kind of society in which there is one general order, its own rules, and values. If a man and a woman belong to it, then they have no problems in the religious sphere.
Due to the mixture of nationalities and religions, it is impossible to say with certainty that in a particular place all people share the same views. If it is crucial for you to find a partner with the same religious beliefs, the best solution is to find your match over the Internet. For example, you are a Catholic seeking for Catholic. Just enter Catholic dating site and choose parameters according to your preferences.

How to Solve a Conflict Because of Religious Differences?

Faith is the most important thing in human life. Family relationships are much lower in importance, so for their sake, you should not neglect your principles. But this does not mean that you need to destroy the marriage. The fact is that faith is that which is deep in the heart of every person. This is a personal relationship with God, which the other person is unable to comprehend and realize because he or she has his or her own faith. So, to have a harmonious relationship, it is worth looking for Christian singles if you are a Christian, for example.

Most often, people have a conflict on the basis of differences of the religious level, because faith is a personal matter for everyone, but the traditions should be the same in a family. And this conformity should be sought by a woman. It is her responsibility to accept new religious traditions if she and her husband have different religions. It is due to the fact that it is much easier for a woman to adapt to a new situation. At the same time, she should tell her husband: “I can accept your traditions, but in my heart, I will continue loving my God, and this cannot be changed.” Then the husband will say: “Well, let it be so, but the main thing is for the relatives to see how you follow our traditions." In this case, the relationship will be harmonious.

Is There Any Way to Avoid Problems in Relationships?

​A man is not able to divide religion and faith - for him, it is one and the same thing. He just confuses these concepts. A woman can distinguish faith in the heart and her behavior.  Problems in relations where partners adhere to different religious traditions can be avoided if a woman accepts the views of a man. For her, it is easier. It is enough to observe religious rituals, attend the temple with her husband, and at the same time adhere to her own relationship with God so that there is harmony in the family.
<![CDATA[What is a Probate Solicitor?]]>Mon, 10 Jun 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/what-is-a-probate-solicitor
​As you may already know there are many different types of solicitors and they all help with different problems that people may face through their life. For example, if you have been injured, faced with criminal charges and even divorce as well as many more. Since there are so many different kinds of solicitors, it can be difficult to know all the different kinds of a solicitor, for example, probate solicitors. Let’s take a look at what a probate solicitor will do and how they could help you out with your legal issues.​

What is a Solicitor?

A solicitor is a type of lawyer that can give advice on one or more type of law and can also help you in the process of making a claim. Solicitors can be used when it comes to seeking legal advice if you have been involved in a crime or if you are going through a divorce as well as dealing with family issues or even if you have been injured.

What a Solicitor does

A solicitor will go through with a client what services they will need and go through documentation and evidence to help you. For example, a solicitor can give you advice on what to do and how you should go about doing it. For instance, if you are involved with crime, a solicitor can tell you what you should plea and what the outcome of this would be. They can advise you on having custody and visiting of children if you are going through a divorce and if you have been involved in an accident, either at work, outside or have suffered from medical negligence and can help you get a claim. Solicitor services can cost a lot of money although it is worthwhile to use their services as they can help you a lot.

What is Probate?

Probate is the process of administering a deceased person’s estate which involves organising money, possessions, inheritance and many other things. If a will has been left behind, someone will also have to administer the estate. There are many different solicitors all over the world and if you live in Nottingham you can find some of the best Nottingham probate solicitors.

Why a Solicitor is Needed

A solicitor is needed for probate because they can help you with everything from where the estate goes and who is entitled to what. Although a probate solicitor is not necessarily required, they can make the job a lot easier and take a lot of the stress off the family. If a will is not included, you may need a solicitor to help you to determine where the estate will be going.

In Conclusion

Solicitors can be a big help and can get you out of all sorts of messes which you never imagined you could be in. When it comes to probate, they will give you some much-needed advice in a calm and patient manner during what otherwise might be a grief-stricken time. Trust them, they are there to help you.
<![CDATA[RV Retirement: Things to Consider Before Living Life on the Road]]>Fri, 31 May 2019 06:07:20 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/rv-retirement-things-to-consider-before-living-life-on-the-roadReady to trade in that mortgage of yours for a home on wheels? Lots of retirees (or those nearing retirement) make this decision. Not only can it be more cost-effective to live in an RV than a traditional home, but it provides you with a means to travel the country during retirement. Whether you intend to do this on a seasonal, long-term (but temporary), or permanent basis, there are some things you’ll want to know about life on the road during retirement.

RV Type

​There are several types of recreational vehicles to choose from to meet your retirement needs. While you want to consider factors like safety, maneuverability, and affordability, size is a factor you don’t want to overlook. Consider testing out or viewing a few different rigs to determine which one is large enough to comfortably fit you, your significant other, and your belongings.

Minimizing Personal Belongings

There are varying sized RVs that you can purchase or rent, however, you won’t have as much space in the recreational vehicle as you would at home. That means you need to get really serious about the things that are most important to you. Holding on to essentials and letting go of the rest may be emotionally challenging, but it’s necessary for your safety and finances.

You’ll need to get rid of excess baggage as it can weigh you down and clutter up the space you do have in the RV. If you’re not keeping your home, ideally you’ll want to donate or sell the items you don’t need. Anything you want, but don’t want to travel with you in the RV can be placed in storage, however, keep in mind this is another bill you’ll need to budget for.

Creature Comforts

Though minimizing your personal belongings is necessary to live comfortably on the RV during retirement, having certain creature comforts on board is ideal. What are some things that you should purchase for the RV to make it more suitable for full-time living?

Perhaps you would like a television set or a computer for entertainment or business purposes. You might need an RV screen room enclosure for your awning so you can get out of the sometimes cramped space and enjoy the outdoors. Maybe your RV has a nice kitchen area, but you’d like to cook outdoors whenever the weather permits it. Then you’d need a grill and other cooking essentials to prepare your meals.

Safety and Protection

Car accidents aren’t the only thing you have to worry about when you’re living in an RV full-time. There’s also the possibility of natural disasters, theft, vandalism, and illness. Should your rig get robbed, damaged in a storm, or vandalized, it is imperative that you have enough insurance protection to cover the costs.

It goes without saying that as you get older, the risk of developing certain medical problems is higher. That’s why it’s important to have high-quality health insurance to protect you no matter where you are in the country. The right insurance coverage allows you to keep up with well visits and preventative measures while also seeking the treatment or emergent care you need in more serious circumstances.


RV living full-time as a retiree may seem like the most affordable thing in the world, but it’s not. Though it does provide significant financial relief from being a homeowner, there are still expenses attached. Such expenses can include the lease or RV loan, gas, maintenance and repairs, parking fees, tolls, insurance, and more. You’ll need to get a detailed list of expenses together to compare it to your retirement income to be sure you’re able to live comfortably. If not, there are a lot of remote and seasonal working opportunities you could consider to boost your retirement income.

Relinquishing the burden of a mortgage, utilities, and other expenses during retirement and simply exploring the country sounds like a dream come true. It can be, of course, as long as you’ve considered factors like those listed above. If living in an RV full-time is something you’re seriously considering, start planning well in advance to ensure that life on the road is everything you dreamed of and more.
<![CDATA[Tips to Ensure You Have a Grand Time at Your Next Family Reunion]]>Wed, 29 May 2019 22:30:17 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/tips-to-ensure-you-have-a-grand-time-at-your-next-family-reunionEvery few years families gather together in a neutral location to reconnect, bond, and spend quality time. While getting together with loved ones may have always been something you enjoyed, as you age, you realize just how important family support really is. You want nothing more than to be able to really enjoy your time with loved ones whether it’s just for the day or a week. To ensure you have a marvelous time, here are some family reunion travel tips to keep in mind.

Reach Out to the Coordinator

The moment you receive notice from relatives that there will be a family reunion you want to reach out to the coordinator. This is important so you can bring forth any ideas, concerns, or questions you may have about the upcoming event. If you have certain mobility issues, health conditions, or dietary considerations that need to be considered during the planning stages be sure to provide this information in advance.

Reserve Your Travel Accommodations

Now that you have an idea of what, when, and where the family reunion is going to be holding it’s best to reserve your travel accommodations. This is particularly true if the reunion is going to be somewhere popular. Look for hotels near the reunion site. You can ask other relatives where they’re staying as you may be able to get group discounts or save on a room by sleeping with one of them.

Decide on how you’ll get to and around at the family reunion destination. If it’s further away, obviously, you’ll need to make arrangements to fly. However, if it’s at a nearby location, perhaps you could drive yourself or carpool with another relative who lives near you.

Pay a Visit to Your Doctor

As you already know, the body doesn’t always work as well as you’d like it to as you get older. So, before leaving for your family reunion, it’s a good idea to check in with your doctor. Let them know where you’ll be going, how you’ll be traveling, and the types of activities you intend to participate in just to get the all-clear. This is also a good time to have any prescriptions filled in the event that you’re going to be away from home for a few days.

​Get Packing

Now that you’ve made your travel plans and got the go-ahead from your doctor you’re ready to start packing for your family reunion trip. There are a few things you’re going to want to take with you even if you only plan on going for a day or two. Of course, you’ll want to make sure you have enough clothes and shoes for the trip. Don’t forget to preorder your Bella + Canvas 3001CVC Unisex Heather CVC T‑Shirt with the family name and logo on it.

You should also remember to pack your medications, supplements, undergarments, sun protection, cosmetics, and other toiletries. It’s also a good idea to pack a few sources of entertainment for the trip there and back (and for the downtime). You can bring along a good book, some board games, or yarn and needles for knitting and crocheting. Try as best you can to get everything into one bag to make it easier on yourself during the commute.

It’s not often that you get to see generations of loved ones all in the same place enjoying each other’s company. So, why not go and enjoy these experiences for yourself? The love and support of those closest to you will not only put a smile on your face but can enhance your overall well-being. After you’ve completed the things on the above-mentioned list you are all packed and ready to go and experience the fun, excitement, and love that comes from being with family.
<![CDATA[The Ultimate Family Gift Guide for Grandparents]]>Fri, 24 May 2019 18:57:38 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/the-ultimate-family-gift-guide-for-grandparentsInterested in giving your loved ones something more meaningful than a fruitcake, handmade sweaters, and other traditional gifts from grandparents? Sure, those gifts are from the heart and your intentions are in the right place, but it would be nice to give your loved ones something they can really appreciate. With so many items to choose from, however, narrowing it down can take some practice.

The best way to shop for gifts for your family is to consider their personalities and/or interests. Using this information, you can buy some of the most trendy and useful gifts they’ll enjoy. Below, are a few of the top categories/interests to choose from


If you want to buy a present any member of your family can appreciate you can’t go wrong with a tech purchase. Technology is used in just about everything we do these days, so whatever you get is sure to be enjoyed. Here are some popular tech gift ideas to consider:
  • Computers/laptops - computers and laptops are used for just about everything these days. Whether your grandkids need a new device for school or your children have just started a home-based business this tech gift will come in handy. 
  • Smartphones - Mobile phone technology evolves constantly. Today, they have so many new advancements that they can take the place of a computer or laptop while also serving as a communication device. 
  • Bluetooth devices - Wireless connectivity is a must these days so why not invest in tech devices that operate with Bluetooth technology? A vintage vinyl record player with bluetooth capabilities, for example,  allows music lovers to combine their love of nostalgia with their favorite tunes. 

Antiques and Collectibles

The great thing about giving antiques as presents are that they’re a gift that keeps on giving. When well-maintained, over time, these items become more valuable. Whether passed down as a family heirloom or preserved and traded in one day, it’s a present your loved ones can appreciate. 
  • Silverware - Got a son or daughter who recently purchased a home? Maybe they were recently married? If so, antique silverware is a meaningful gift to consider. 
  • Sports Cards - If you have a grandson who loves baseball, basketball, or football the right card could make their day. You can find rare sports cards online and in specialty stores for sale.
  • Paintings - Vintage paintings are another anitque or collectible that’s a great gift for an adult relative. Great as home decor pieces these paintings can be hung and enjoyed by everyone.

Health and Wellness

Everyone is trying to take a better approach to living healthy lifestyles. From dieting and exercising to reducing stress and more, there are a lot of ways to approach this. Needless to say, there are a ton of products on the market that your health and fitness enthusiasts will appreciate.
  • Spa Essentials - Relaxation and the reduction of stress are at the top of everyone’s list. Help your loved ones to unwind with spa essentials. Anything from aromatherapy candles to bath salts and essential oils will suffice. 
  • Gym Gear - When it comes to exercising the gym remains one of the most popular places to go. You can buy your relatives gym gear to make their experience more successful. Yoga pants, tank tops, mats, water bottles, duffel bags, and running shoes are all examples of gym gear that would be useful. 
  • Cookware or Meal Programs - Healthy eating is often difficult as a result of lack of resources, or limited time. You can give your family a jumpstart in eating right by purchasing cookware or meal delivery services. Cookware that makes cooking easier and healthier frees up time in the kitchen while meal delivery services ship fresh ingredients and delicious recipes right to their front door. 
Every grandparent wants to purchase gifts that their family will receive, enjoy, and use. Admittedly, however, finding the perfect gifts isn’t always easy. There are always so many new things on the market that narrowing down your options can seem daunting. Fortunately, all it takes is a little consideration to their personal interests. Once you’ve figured out what they love, you can then start looking for gifts that can help them enjoy and indulge even more. Hopefully, this family gift guide has given you some insight on how to find meaningful gifts for everyone no matter what the occasion.
<![CDATA[9 Simple Yet Effective Ways Seniors Can Stay Healthy]]>Mon, 20 May 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/9-simple-yet-effective-ways-seniors-can-stay-healthy​As you age, you face unique and specific health concerns. You’re also more likely to get sick alongside other negative health effects. But there are a few things you can do to improve your health and wellness.

1. Take Supplements

As your body ages, it doesn’t absorb vitamins and nutrients from nutrition the way it once did. Your doctor will likely recommend taking vitamins and minerals on a daily basis in order to prevent deficiencies.

A simple, yet often underappreciated supplement is gummies with CBD. This supplement derived from the hemp plant has no psychoactive properties like marijuana, but it comes with a host of health benefits like pain relief, reduced inflammation, stress relief, and more. It’s a legal supplement in some form in almost every state, and those who have tried it have reported numerous health and wellness benefits with minimal side effects.

Consider using a weekly pill separator to ensure you won’t forget to take your pills daily for optimum wellness and nutrition.

2. Drink More Water

​Everyone could benefit from drinking a little more water, but seniors need it more than most. Every cell, tissue, and organ in your body requires hydration to work properly. If you want your immune system to fight off illnesses, your joints to heal from injury, and your body to stave off serious illnesses like heart disease, hypertension, and diabetes, you’ll drink more water.

Consider getting a water chart and filling it out through the day as you strive to reach your goal of at least 64 oz of water daily. If you’re tech savvy, you might consider an app that keeps track of your water intake instead.

3. Socialize

Mental wellness is just as important as physical, particularly for the aging mind. You’ll soon find that your cognitive responses will slow and struggle more with each passing year. Socializing with others stimulates your brains and continually fires synapses to keep it healthy.

Seniors are often lonely too. They’re at a higher risk for anxiety, depression, dementia, and other mental health issues. Connecting with others who are in similar positions as your own allows you to let off steam that might otherwise build into serious mental health issues.

To make sure you’re getting proper socialization, it might be time to move from your long-time family home to a community where there are more people with similar life experience. There are many communities, both outside of nursing homes and within, that offer the senior-friendly socialization you subconsciously crave.

4. Join a Gym

Exercise will protect your joints, muscles, and tendons from falls and old age. You should achieve about 30 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise every day. A gym membership is ideal because you’ll kill two birds with one stone: exercise and socialization.

Choose a gym with plenty of senior-friendly activities. Many wellness centers like the YMCA have dozens of programs designed to help seniors with varying health problems and concerns stay active and healthy through fitness classes. They’ll teach you how to exercise without hurting yourself and give you opportunities to socialize with those with which you have things in common.

5. Sleep Better

Getting a better night’s sleep is an essential part of physical and mental health. While you sleep, your brain archives memories and replenishes energy stores. Your body repairs torn muscles and invites greater rest and relaxation for the next day. If you’re not getting the recommended 6-9 hours of sleep each night, your physical and mental state will suffer.

The sleep industry offers many potential solutions for those who struggle with sleep. Shop around, asking for reviews and recommendations from trusted sources. Your doctor can likely point you in the right direction for a better night’s sleep if you bring it up at your next appointment.

6. Stimulate Your Brain

Alzheimer’s, dementia, and other memory loss problems affect more than 40 percent​ of those over the age of 65. Each year, about one percent will progress from slight memory loss to dementia or worse, which is devastating to both those experiencing it and their families.

Stimulating your brain is a great way to slow memory-related health issues. Find ways to stimulate your brain. Pull out a crossword puzzle, watch trivia game shows, visit museums, and participate in other activities that require cognitive activity. Regular mental stimulation can delay or even prevent mental health problems at the end of your life.

7. Add Color to Your Plate

The standard American diet involves a lot of yellow and white foods. These hold very little nutritional value. As you age, you already struggle to get enough nutrition in the foods you eat, so eating monotone-colored meals won’t help.

As a general rule of thumb, every time you sit down to a meal, look for opportunities to add color. Carrots, bell peppers, oranges, leafy greens, cabbage, strawberries, and other fruits and vegetables are packed with nutrition and taste to improve your overall diet and health.

8. Have Regular Teeth Examinations

Your mouth is linked to your overall health in ways that you might not realize. Receiving an oral examination once every sixth months will decrease your risks for developing certain illnesses, prevent cavities, and help you keep your original teeth as long as possible.

In the meantime, brush and floss regularly. Good dental hygiene goes a long way in promoting your overall health and wellness.

9. Focus on Prevention

​Some things are inevitable with old age. Your memory will worsen, your hearing and vision will degrade, and you’ll have wrinkles and age spots. There’s nothing you can do about those things. However, there’s a lot you can do to prevent serious health concerns, simply by taking preventative measures.

Prevent falls and injuries by removing trip hazards and improving lighting. 
Receive yearly screenings for cancer and other illnesses at your yearly checkups.
Avoid certain risk factors for heart disease and other illnesses.
Eat healthy and exercise to stave off heart disease.
Quit smoking and limit your alcohol and caffeine intake.

Your prevention efforts will not only keep you healthier—they may also save your life one day!
<![CDATA[Writer's Block: How To Cover a Wedding Story]]>Fri, 17 May 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/writers-block-how-to-cover-a-wedding-storyFor those who write for a living, trying to find the right words to convey a message to your audience can present some challenges. This is particularly true when it comes to telling stories about personal moments like weddings. Capturing the very essence of the celebration to give your readers a true understanding of the occasion requires great skill. 

From color schemes and themes to the best venues and where to find the right wedding catering San Diego, New York, or Florida, a writer must learn to cover a wedding story in a way that provides sound advice and gives engaged couples a glimpse at what their wedding could be like. Though there is certainly more than one way to accomplish this, the best wedding posts should include the following elements. 

Talk to the Couple

Your wedding story won’t be much without some specific details and opinions from the couple themselves. If you have the means to do so, start by having an in-depth conversation with the couple. Find out more about their personalities. 

Where did they meet? How did they fall in love? What was the engagement like? What did they like or dislike about the wedding planning process? What were some special moments? What advice might they have for other couples getting married?

Asking those types of questions helps you to add character and personality to the story. It gives the readers something to identify with from the moment they start reading. If you can’t, however, talk with the couple, or you’re writing a fictional piece, try to create answers to the question based on the interests of your target audience.

Write From Personal Experience

Another angle you might take when writing a wedding blog post or story is to write from your own experiences. Whether you’re married or not, chances are you have some experience with weddings. Talk about how you felt as the bride or groom to be during the planning process, before, during, and after the wedding was over. Discuss how it felt as a guest. What things stood out most? What dishes were your favorite and why? Did you like the venue and entertainment? This gives the story more character and brings it to life for the audience. 

Be Very Descriptive

​To truly give readers a real glimpse of the wedding you have to be descriptive. As you’re writing the piece, try to draw on emotions, your own experiences, and the descriptions​ provided by others. As you walk through the venue, what do you see, how do you feel, what were your first thoughts? When you look at the bridal party what about their attire stood out, what were some of the latest trends, how were they acting? What was the day like? The weather,  mood of the audience, and even the taste and smell of the foods? This provides readers with the opportunity to really visualize themselves being there and being in the moment with you.

Weddings are beautiful and sacred ceremonies celebrated all around the world. When presented with the opportunity to write a post on a true love story it may require you to dig deep. Take advice from other writers and blogs, identify your audience, connect with real-life stories or opinions, and be as descriptive as possible. In following this advice you will create a story that your readers fall in love with every time.
<![CDATA[4 Things New Business Owners Don't Always Think About But Should]]>Fri, 17 May 2019 00:24:15 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/4-things-new-business-owners-dont-always-think-about-but-shouldNo matter where you were born, what economic circles you run in, or the type of education you received, every American has the opportunity to try their hand at being a business owner. However, though owning your own business is a romantic notion, it's also important to note that it's no small feat and takes a ton of hard work and determination to pull off successfully. There are a few things you should prepare ahead for when starting a new business, things that you might never use, but need to prepare for anyway.

Legal Issues

Many small business owners think they don't need the services of a lawyer, especially when they're just starting out. This couldn't be further from the truth. There are many eventualities where an attorney could be needed, such as debt consolidation, business planning, and asset protection. They can also make sure your business plan and licensing paperwork is accurate and filed correctly. It's better to have a lawyer on retainer for your small business than to be without one when you need them. To find one, a simple internet search for a small business lawyer San Diego if you happen to be in Southern California, should yield several good results.

An Emergency Plan

In the rosy haze of starting a new business, any kind of disaster is unconscionable. However, in reality, lots of things can happen that are beyond your control. Natural disasters, power outages, fires, floods, internet connectivity issues. Do you know what you would do if your office building were to flood and you had to relocate for weeks? What if your servers go down? Do you have offsite backups? 

If you don't have a clue on how to answer any of these questions, you need an emergency plan before you ever open your doors for the first time. It doesn't have to be an elaborate plan, but having the basics in place could save you a lot of grief if the worst should happen.


Even though the thought of expanding might sound crazy when you're first starting out, but building in scalability from the beginning is a wise move. This could mean investing in a larger network server now to save the cost of upgrading later, for example. The same applies to things like phone systems, POS networks and even leasing a copier. Less tangible things might include just a paper plan for how you will expand when the time comes. Is a second location the right move? Is the office space you have going to support 50% more staff? Planning is key to a successful expansion.

Cleaning Services

​No business owner wants to stay after hours to give their business a good cleaning. However, bathrooms, windows, floors, carpeting, and other janitorial services have to be performed regularly. Since you're already going to be busy making a name for yourself in your chosen field, it's a good idea to hire a company that does the commercial cleaning for you. In this way, you will be able to concentrate on growing your business through marketing and hard work instead of putting your efforts into cleaning your business. If you have an outdoor space, don't forget to plan for its upkeep as well.

​Starting a small business is daunting, exciting, frightening and oh so rewarding...if you do it right, that is. Preparing for the eventualities beforehand will help you and your business succeed in the long run. 
<![CDATA[Tips and Information for Keeping Credit Cards Safe While Traveling]]>Wed, 15 May 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/tips-and-information-for-keeping-credit-cards-safe-while-traveling​Many thieves are usually preying on travelers because this is the time that your guard is down. Hence, you need to be careful whenever you are on a trip. As you enjoy yourself, be sure to keep your cards safe. Here are a few tips:

​1. Share Your Itinerary with Your Bank

If you are in New York and try to pay for dinner in Los Angeles, your bank might suspect fraud and suspend the card. Giving your bank a rough itinerary of a trip you are planning for is now a norm for travelers, particularly if you are doing international travel. Add a week to your return date. This will ensure that in case of an emergency and you can’t return as planned, there are resources to make new hotel arrangements or pay for extra hotel nights. Your credit is most valuable when you are stranded.

2. Pack Well

Pack your wallet similar to a suitcase by taking what’s necessary only. While the PCI Security Council helps to ensure data security compliance among all major financial institutions, that doesn’t mean you need to bring every card you own. Hence, be sure to carry an ATM or debit card along with two or three major credit cards. The rest can be left at home. Double check to ensure the cards you bring will be accepted in the destination country; most cards are accepted in most places, but there are always exceptions. Your bank or credit card provider will be more than able to supply this information.

3. Minimize the Cash Withdrawal Limits

​Debit cards are great ways of obtaining money, and they are also perfect ways for changing currencies. Most debit cards, particularly those that have a visa logo or MasterCard, will work at most cash machines overseas. With a debit or ATM card, the majority of the banks restrict the amount withdrawn in 24 hours. If you are going on a trip with the card, you might need to call up and temporarily reduce the limit. Hence, in case your card information or the card is stolen, and you report quickly, your loss is mitigated. Additionally, you can have a different travel account that is not connected to your typical savings and checking accounts. Deposit on the account the amount you plan on using during the vacation, and use that card during the trip. Therefore, if someone steals from your account, your regular accounts will still be safe.

​4. Have Emergency Phone Numbers

​If you are on a trip and both your wallet and phone are stolen, it might be hard to report the theft if you don’t have the phone numbers of your card issuer written somewhere. Maintain a list of phone numbers of your card issuer to ensure you can call them immediately someone steals your card or card information. Have these numbers in your phone and also keep a written list somewhere safe that is not your wallet. You will be able to put your accounts on hold within minutes of the theft.

5. Ask Hotels Regarding Card Security

​The hotel sector reported eight percent of all card hacks in 2011. While this a reduction from 38 percent figure in 2009, it is still substantial. Hence, be sure to keep credit cards safe while staying at your hotel. Remember to inquire if the hotel computer system has tokenization or encryption technology, which safeguards private data. If you need to receive a package while abroad don't take the safety of those for granted either. One super safe option is to use a package locker. Nowadays, companies exist to manage the delivery and safekeeping of packages on a large scale for living communities or even businesses. Ask your hotel if they have such a service or how you can safely receive a package in the local area. 

​If you want to avoid or restrict the theft of monies in your bank account, be sure to keep these five tips in mind. You will not have to cut your trip short because all your money is gone.
<![CDATA[Helpful Tips for Older Driver: How to Handle Yourself Behind the Wheel]]>Tue, 14 May 2019 16:15:41 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/helpful-tips-for-older-driver-how-to-handle-yourself-behind-the-wheelDriving a car is an essential part of our lives. We spend thousands of hours at the wheel. Day after day, we sharpen our driving skills. It seems it’ll go on forever. Yet, things change as you get older. The seniors aren’t so good drivers as they would be. The level of concentration decreases. The sharpness of eyesight worsens. The reaction rate deteriorates.
​Still, you don’t have to give up the driving pleasure. The following tips will help you to make the driving process safe and comfortable even at the age of 70+.

​#1. Health Condition Is of Primary Importance

You will never get the driving license unless you pass the medical test. The rules demand to take a medical examination every five years after 70. you have to renew it when you turn 75. In older age, however, it’s recommended to visit your physician at least once a year. The following aspects should be examined:
  • the blood pressure;
  • the condition of eyesight;
  • the mental ability to control the vehicle is in focus, too.
In fact, the lives of many people depend upon the condition of your health. An unexpected heart attack often leads to accidents. One more point is important. According to statistics, accidents with seniors often have fatal results. If you feel bad, don’t use a vehicle. If the doctor says to wear glasses, you must do it.

#2. Insurance Is a Must-Have

​Life insurance is one of the most important things to have. It gives financial help in the case of a mishap. When it comes to drivers, car insurance is of primary importance. As a matter of fact, the seniors are accident-prone. The older people suffer grave injuries and more fatalities than younger people. The price of car insurance for older drives is more expensive in comparison with insurance for middle-aged ones.
The car insurance coverage differs from region to region. The most common points include:
  • damage and injuries you cause others in accidents;
  • your own medical costs;
  • collision payment;
  • payments in case your car is stolen or damaged by anything other than car
  • accidents.
​There are many extra options. They may include rental reimbursement, roadside assistance, and full glass coverage. Car insurance is a perfect way to avoid unexpected expenses.

#3. Being at the Wheel

There is a list of items that always should be present in the car of seniors:
  • first aid kit. The pain-killers or antibiotics, adhesive tape, and band-aids are able to save your life. If you have serious trouble with your health, you should keep the necessary medicines at hand;
  • documents with contact information of your relatives or friends;
  • emergency mobile phone;
  • chargers;
  • the warm clothes and blankets;
  • some snack and water;
  • batteries and flashlight.
You should keep in mind that long-distance driving isn’t a good idea for seniors. If you have to span distant ground, it’s better to travel with a company.

​So, driving when you are a person in years is a reality. You have only to be careful and follow certain rules.
<![CDATA[Why a Will Could Give You Peace of Mind]]>Fri, 10 May 2019 12:40:19 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/why-a-will-could-give-you-peace-of-mindA Will is a legal document that allows you to write your wishes of what you want to happen to your property or belongings and who you want to leave them to. It is an important thing to have because, if you do not have one, the belongings you want to give to your family members might not go to the people you want them to. If you are looking for peace of mind about where your estate will go when you die, keep reading to find out why a Will is right for you.

You Can Make Decisions

One of the reasons for making a Will is because you can decide who you want to leave belongings to. When it comes to making a Will, you get to make all of the decisions. However, if you don’t have a Will in place, money or belongings can go to people in your family that you haven’t spoken to for years. This means that the family members that were involved with the relative that passed away will not get anything. Things may also get turned over to the legal system. The Treasury has a host of protocols they use in the event that someone dies without a Will and your family members and close friends could get little say in it.

Avoids Arguments with Family

When writing a Will, you can decide who gets what or you can decide where your things will be put. However, if you do not have a Will in place, your family members might be more inclined to have disagreements and arguments because they might think that your belongings should go to other people whereas, some might think they are entitled to more than what they should be. If you have a family who is prone to bickering like this, a Will lets you know that no accidents can happen after you have gone.

Things can Happen Unexpectedly

There are many reasons why you need a will; you do not know when a life-threatening disease or accident could happen to you or another family member. If you don’t have a Will put in place before something life-threatening happens, any wishes you have might not be honoured. If you know that you have something which you want to give to a family member or friend, make it legally binding as soon as possible.

Can Make Changes at Any Time

Another reason you should make a Will is that you can make changes to it at any time you have to, so for example, if you want to add more people to your Will or take people away. All it takes is a visit to your solicitor.

In Conclusion

Overall it is important to make sure you have a will put in place to ensure that you can give your family your belongings that you want to give them. This will avoid arguments happening throughout the family and ensure everyone is left with something that you want them to have. If you are looking to put your affairs in order and approach the end of your life with complete peace of mind, you are going to need a Will.
<![CDATA[Building vs. Buying Your Dream Home for Retirement: The Pros and Cons]]>Wed, 01 May 2019 02:15:49 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/building-vs-buying-your-dream-home-for-retirement-the-pros-and-cons​You've thought about every part of your retirement from where you want to travel to, to how you're going to make extra money to supplement your already growing retirement fund. Now, it's time to make the decision between buying and building your retirement home. Read the few pros and cons to each to help you make an informed decision.

​Pros and Cons of Building

Pro: Trained Professionals
​One of the most significant advantages of having a home designed and built for your retirement years is you get to choose the trained professionals that do the job for you. From the most reputable builder to hiring a master of construction management to design your home, you are in control of who works on every aspect of the house you choose to have built.
​Con: Licenses and Regulations
There are more steps to building a home than buying one. First, you have to find the land, then make sure it's on top of sewer and water systems. After that, environmental checks must be done, as well as securing permits and licenses. These are things that your builder can help you with, but they can still be a hassle.
Pro: It's Greener
When you buy an existing home, you inherit that home’s problems. There could be hidden problems, such as mold in the basement or rotting wood that isn't discovered until after the paperwork is signed. Building your own home allows you to move into a clean house, one that is environmentally friendly as well
Con: More Money is Needed Now
​There are more costs associated with building a home, one of them being that you are going to have to find a way to pay for another place to live while your home is being built. 

​Pros and Cons of Buying 

Pro: It's a Streamlined Process
​Local agents are amazing helpers. For example, if you want to retire to San Diego County, having a reputable Carlsbad real estate agent in your corner can streamline the process of buying your home exponentially. All you have to do is search for the right home, make an offer, and you'll be moved into your dream home and enjoying your retirement before you know it.
Con: Repairs and Maintenance
When you buy your dream home instead of building it, you aren't going to get precisely what you want. Repairs, remodeling, and reshaping the house can run into the thousands of dollars. And that’s on top of what you already paid in closing costs, down payments, mortgage fees, etc.!
Retirement is a time that many people dream about as they get older and grow tired of the everyday rat race that is a traditional nine to five job. One of the things that many retirees look forward to most is finding their dream home for retirement. This is the home that you want to stay in for the rest of your life, so it's essential to get it right. That's why weighing the pros and cons of each is so important.
<![CDATA[What to Do if You Suspect a Loved One Died Due to Negligence]]>Wed, 10 Apr 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/what-to-do-if-you-suspect-a-loved-one-died-due-to-negligence​Losing a loved one is one of life's most challenging experiences. Whether your loved one is a small child or a beloved grandparent, we are never ready to say goodbye to those closest to us. However, this process is even more devastating when you suspect that the death could have been prevented. If you believe that your loved one has been a victim of negligence, medical malpractice, or abuse at the hand of healthcare providers, keep the following information in mind.

Seek Professional Assistance

One of the most important steps you can take is finding professional legal assistance as soon as possible. If you've been researching wrongful death suits, you will likely find an overwhelming amount of information. Instead of trying to tackle everything yourself, contact a reputable wrongful death attorney to see if they’re willing to take the case.

Most quality firms provide one-hour consultations at no cost to you, so you can get answers to your basic questions without any risk. As you explain your case and your suspicions, the wrongful death attorney will let you know whether he believes your case is strong enough to proceed. You'll also discover helpful information about deadlines, statutes of limitation, and other vital legal guidelines in your specific state.

Gather Documentation

As soon as you suspect a loved one has died due to medical malpractice, we recommend that you write down everything you remember. Make notes of dates, times, and personnel, and include as many details as possible. You never know what information might prove to be the most helpful in your case, and you want to document everything while the information is still fresh in your mind. If possible, take photos to provide further support to your claim.

You will likely speak with numerous medical personnel before you get to the point of contacting an attorney, so we recommend that you document these conversations, too. Most private conversations cannot legally be recorded without consent, but you can make notes of who you talked to when the conversation took place, and what was discussed.

Your attorney is here to help you gather this documentation, interview witnesses, and perform other important tasks, so you'll be working as a team as your case is built. In many cases, proving claims can be time-consuming and complicated, so please feel free to ask your attorney questions at any time so that you feel comfortable about what is occurring.

Take Care of Yourself

Taking up the fight against a healthcare system or provider is not an easy task. It is even more draining when you are grieving a loss. Because of this, we want to encourage you to take care of yourself. When you have a professional attorney that you can trust, you should no longer feel like you are fighting the system alone.

You honor the memory of your loved one by doing everything possible to keep yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally healthy. When you get overwhelmed by the possible negligence or malpractice, don't forget to fill your heart with good memories of your loved one and the happy times that you spend together.

It's OK to take as many breaks as necessary as you are working through this process. Surround yourself with supportive, loving people, and treat yourself to whatever relieves your stress. On hard days, call a friend to meet for lunch, schedule a relaxing massage, or simply enjoy a calm walk outside in nature.

Finding a negligence or medical malpractice suit can be an emotional task, but you can find justice for your loved one by working with a professional who has your best interests in mind.
<![CDATA[Expensive and Unhealthy Habits You’ll Want to Break Before Retirement]]>Tue, 09 Apr 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/expensive-and-unhealthy-habits-youll-want-to-break-before-retirementHow prepared are you to retire? You may be putting money into a savings plan, paying down debt, and mapping out your retirement life, but there’s a bit more that needs to be done if you’re going to retire happily. For instance, kicking expensive and unhealthy habits to the curb. You see, once you retire, you don’t have the backup of a steady check nor the youthfulness and health from years prior.

If you made a bad money decision or participate in unhealthy habits when you were employed full-time or young and healthy, chances are you could wait until your next paycheck or bounce back from a health problem. Now, however, you’re getting older and your income is fixed meaning you have to develop good habits that will prolong your life and stretch your budget. Here is a look at some of the most expensive and unhealthy habits to start changing today. 

Not Using a Budget

Do you have any idea where your money is going every pay cycle? Are you using your income to its fullest potential? Are there things you could do to cut back and save more? There are questions a budget can easily answer for you.

Neglecting to keep track of your finances in retirement, however, can cause you to fall deeper into debt and drain your savings faster. Start using a budget now to prepare you for the future. There are plenty of applications and software you can use to make budgeting easier.

Smoking and Drinking

​If you’re nearing retirement and are still engaging in smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol, you need to kick these habits - and fast. The longer you hold onto these vices the more damage it does to your body. Both increase your risk of developing diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and cancer and reduce your lifespan by years. Not to mention, they’re both very expensive habits to keep up.

If you’ve been a smoker or drinker for years, beating these habits may be easier said than done. Fortunately, there are ways you can start the process of letting them go for good. For example, you could order a vape kit which doesn’t contain tobacco and begin there. Since vape liquids have varying levels of nicotine, you could wean yourself off of cigarettes. As for drinking, perhaps removing it from your house, steering clear of environments where drinking is involved, and going to addiction treatment if you’re suffering from addiction.

​Not Exercising

When you’re younger, not exercising isn’t necessarily a big deal. Your metabolisms are high, immune systems are strong, and, for the most part, your health is under control. As you get older, however, your mind and body don’t function the same. They require diet and exercise to remain in optimal health.

Start incorporating physical activities into your day. Whether you go to the gym, start walking around your neighborhood, dance while you’re cleaning the house, walking further from the parking lot to your job, using the stairs instead of an elevator, or walking the dog regularly, it all contributes to shedding pounds, strengthening your body, and enhancing your mind.

Impulsive Spending

How many times have you walked into a store or searched a website and saw something you wanted but didn’t necessarily need? Though it’s nice to treat yourself to something you like on occasion, impulsive spending money can result in serious debt. If you keep this habit up in retirement, you’ll run through your monthly income very quickly.

To stop shopping impulsively you should first start by living with a budget. Having a designated amount to spend on miscellaneous things allows you to treat yourself within reason. Another way to cut down on your spending habits is to try the 24-hour rule. If you see something you want, wait 24 hours before deciding to purchase it. If in the 24 hours you don’t have that same intense urge to buy, then don’t.

Retirement is supposed to be one of the best times in your life. You’ve worked, raised a family, and navigated the ups and downs of life and as a result, made it to the other side. If you want to enjoy these years of your life, it is imperative to keep your health and finances first. Kicking the above-mentioned habits now will help with ensuring that you can live a retirement lifestyle you’ve always dreamed of.
<![CDATA[End Of The Line, Or Is It? Dealing With Infertility as an Older Adult]]>Fri, 29 Mar 2019 15:35:28 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/how-to-create-a-strong-bond-with-your-surrogate
Almost all living things are designed to reproduce. That’s simply evolution and survival at work. It is one of the most natural of functions and to some, becoming a parent and being able to raise the next generation is the defining moment and ultimate purpose in life.

But not everyone is so blessed to have the ability to reproduce. Some are unable to because of an accident, because of their physiology, and others, sadly, simply are unable to find someone to share this miracle with.

It’s a frightful prospect to know that your branch of the family tree could end with you. It can be a painful realization to find that your life was not as fruitful as you might have wanted. After all, what’s the point of having everything when you don’t have anyone to share it with? So, what should you do?

Acknowledge The Situation

The first step to solving any problem is to acknowledge that it even exists and that there’s a need to determine whether to fix it or accept it. The importance of being able to express these feelings is vital in being able to come up with a solution. Keeping these negative feelings inside is going to cause emotional distress and will ultimately break you down. Face your problems head-on.

Be Honest With Your Loved Ones

Your greatest support is going to come from your partner or your family. You won’t be able to count on that support if they don’t even know what’s going on. Make sure to share your feelings with them in a healthy, positive way. Challenges shouldn’t break bonds, but rather, strengthen them.

Join an Infertility Support Group

It’s also important to find people who are empathic of you, those who completely understand what you’re going through because they, too, are going through the same thing. By talking to those who are at all different stages of the infertility journey, you may find the support and stories of hope you’re looking for.

Seek Therapy

When none of the abovementioned tips work, then it’s time to seek professional help. Fertility counselors are trained to help you overcome the initial hurdles of infertility. They are able to provide clients with insight and offer sound advice. They are your best option if you’re unable to express your feelings in a healthy way.


Once you’re over the initial hurdles and you’ve already accepted your situation, you may want to either remedy it or simply live with it. If you really want to give it a try, you can consider opting for surrogacy. It’s unconventional, but not as uncommon as you might think. It’s slowly becoming a more accepted method of growing a family. This surrogacy blog even illustrates the surrogacy process and provides stories and tips on what to expect.


​If surrogacy isn’t the thing for you, then you can also consider adopting a child instead. You will be assessed by a social worker in your ability to exercise parental authority over the child, as well as other requirements such as being at least 16 years older than the adoptee. There are many children who are in need of a permanent home and this could be an opportunity to make a difference in the life of a child.
<![CDATA[Downsizing After Retirement to Supplement Your Pension]]>Fri, 29 Mar 2019 05:38:45 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/downsizing-after-retirement-to-supplement-your-pension​Many people look forward to retirement, as it finally gives them the opportunity to do something with their golden years rather than worrying about working for hours each day. However, one thing that can hamper your ambitions for finally enjoy life is finances. While you may be receiving an income from your pension, this may be nowhere near as much as your income was. In addition, it may not be enough to fund the type of retirement you want.

So, what can you do in order to fund your retirement and supplement your pension? Well, there are steps you can take in order to cut some costs such as looking for cheaper providers for utilities or finding cheap health insurance to save money. However, one major move you can make it is look at downsizing your property.

Some of the Key Benefits of Downsizing

​There are many people who come to retirement age and find themselves still living in the family property they have been in for years. With the kids generally having left home by this time, the property is often far bigger than you need. Even though your mortgage may be fully paid by this time in your life, you still have to take other points into consideration such as the cost of running a larger property.

Many retired people spend years struggling along on a modest pension while they have tens of thousands – maybe hundreds of thousands – tied up in their property. By selling up and downsizing, you can continue to enjoy a mortgage-free life by paying outright for your new property from the money you get for your property. At the same time, you will also have additional money to put in the bank, enjoy your retirement, and leave to loved ones.

The cost of running a larger home can also make a big difference to your finances. Paying the bills on a larger property can result in your spending far more than you need to when it comes to your bills. This is wasted money if you only make use of part of the property. By downsizing to a smaller property that is cheaper to run, you will not only be able to make use of the money that is tied up in your current property, but you will also be able to reduce how much you have to pay on your bills and expenses.

There is one more major benefit that comes with downsizing. Looking after and maintaining a larger property can be time-consuming and stressful, particularly when you are trying to enjoy your retirement and relax. With a smaller property, you will find it far easier to look after your home. Cleaning, maintenance, and general upkeep will be far easier than with a larger property. 

So, if you want to tap into your equity to help make retirement more enjoyable, downsizing could be the ideal solution. This is a great way to get money in the bank and make life easier once you start drawing your pension.
<![CDATA[Ways to finish your college homework faster]]>Wed, 27 Mar 2019 07:00:00 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/ways-to-finish-your-college-homework-fasterIt’s no secret that many students have a thing against homework. It’s often been called an unnecessary problem that students have to deal with, and homework is often considered ineffective. However, it’s still present in the system, so it means that students will just have to deal with it. There are ways to go about when doing homework so that you’re more effective, because a lot of times you just want to be done as quick as possible.

​Always have a plan

Plenty of students start doing their homework randomly. That means that they just jump in the first thing they see when they open the backpack, and that there’s no plan for what and how they’re doing. This method is often considered very ineffective and a waste of time, because having a plan is always superior. Creating a list with what you have to do, as well as allocating the amount of time you think you’ll need, are definitely the best way to approach writing homework. Planning out everything means that you’ll spend less time figuring things on the go, and more time enjoying your free hours.

Never work in crowded surroundings

​In many cases, homework is serious work, and it’ll require your full focus and awareness to properly complete it. Sometimes even having a single person around just doing their thing can be distracting. That’s why you need to find out where your personal groove is, and use that place to its full potential. It’s almost always for the best to work in a secluded spot, one without a TV to slow you down, or without too many distractions that can take away from your focus.

Turn off unnecessary devices

Unless you’re sure that you’ll need your computer or phone, never have them turned on while you’re doing homework. It’s no secret that electronic devices are the biggest distraction for work, so having them off can really do wonders. Instead of feeling pressured to return a text or check social media, you’ll be entirely immersed in your work. Whatever it is that’s normally distracting you can wait for a couple of hours while you finish with your obligations.

Get outside help​

Sometimes you just don’t have the time to manage all of your homework and projects. Instead of missing on deadlines and hoping that you can get an extension, you can easily find help from someone else. Using a college paper writing service is definitely a smart move, because it not only saves you on time, but it pretty much gives you a guarantee that the work will be done with proper research and on the right topic. You should consider using help, because at the very least it saves up on time.

​Drink water and snack while working

You’re probably doing homework at the end of the day. That’s when you’re tired the most, and you’ll probably want to do nothing else than simply lay down and relax. That’s your body’s way of telling you that your reserves are depleted, and it’s up to you to bring yourself back to full speed. Water is something you should never forget, because it’s smart to be hydrated at all times, but also don’t forget about snacks. Snacking on something that will keep your brain working for an extra hour or two is definitely a smart choice.

Take breaks between work​

Sometimes when you’re extra tired your mind and your body just aren’t in sync enough. Those are moments that everyone recognizes, and in those cases you should most definitely take a short break. Pushing through it will lead to worse results, which in turn might lead you to have to redo a large portion of your homework. That’s something you want to avoid because it’s the complete opposite of efficiency.

​Always reward yourself at the end

Human brains work on a reward system. If you feel like you’ve done a good job, then definitely do something about that. Whether that’s simply eating a tasty treat, or playing a game, or even just going for a walk, rewards have an incredibly positive effect. Make sure to utilize them as much as possible.

Homework can be tricky because it often requires a lot of your time. With some proper planning and preparation you can become very efficient and save on time.
<![CDATA[What to Know About Genealogical DNA Tests]]>Mon, 25 Mar 2019 19:07:45 GMThttp://www.retiredbrains.com/blog/what-to-know-about-genealogical-dna-testsThroughout time, people have been on a quest to find their origins. Some individuals search through history books, and some people search through different religions. Recently, science has offered a new option to get answers. Genealogical DNA tests look at genomes in the blood and give an estimate of what ethnicities a person comes from.

This test has gained popularity worldwide due to the ease and speed of it.

Although the idea of a genealogical DNA test sounds promising, there are a few drawbacks to be mindful of. Genetics is a field that scientists have only begun to understand. For this reason, the test results are not 100 percent accurate.

The results of a genealogical DNA test can cause a serious identity crisis for a person if the test says something different from what he or she was raised to believe. We often grow accustomed to our alleged family roots, so finding out we aren’t really Irish or Italian can mess with our heads. On top of that, the results may not even be correct. Therefore, take the results as the estimates that they are and be sure to mentally prepare for unwanted results.

If you have ordered a DNA testing kit, be sure to research the company performing the results. Sites such as DNAGeek provide a trove of insight into how these tests vary from one another. For instance, does the company keep some of your DNA for any reason? Does the company share your results with any outside sources? These are important questions to have answered before submitting your sample.

Unfortunately, this act does give companies the freedom to share information under certain circumstances. For example, if obvious identifying characteristics are removed from your sample, then the company can sell it. Therefore, privacy is a big factor in deciding whether to submit a DNA testing kit.

Aside from the drawbacks, these tests have done a lot to help people. While this test can weaken a person's cultural identity, there are plenty of testimonies that say the test results helped to strengthen it. Many adoptees are not as concerned with what country their ancestors came from, as much as they are about who their immediate family is today. The genealogical test has helped to reunite adoptees to their biological families. Since this test goes deeper than paternity or maternity, people can find brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, and grandparents. The results are kept on a database and alerts are sent out when there is a match to someone else's results.

Genealogical DNA tests are a revolutionary development. So far, the benefits are outweighing the downsides. If you or someone you know is looking to take one of these tests, be sure to educate and prepare yourself for the results. Also, remember that the tests are not all the way accurate. Knowing your background can give you more insight into what you are as a person, but it will not tell you who you are. Therefore, when taking these tests, do not overanalyze it. Take it for what it is, interesting and informative.]]>